Ask About Alcohol, will it help solve Ireland’s drink problem?

Ask About Alcohol the new alcohol awareness campaign from the HSE was launched earlier this month there’s a website, videos and radio ads.

Ask about alcohol aims to raise awareness that the majority of Irish people who drink are drinking in a way that harms them. Incredibly, it’s the very first time the HSE has produced an offical  website which is devoted to alcohol only. It’s incredible because alcohol kills far more people than  suicide or road accidents as you can see below.

(Note, We’re not an official government service, but our information is reliable and comes from reputable sources such as WHO, HSE and the NHS)

 

Ask About Alcohol has nice features

As a first step the ask about alcohol website is very welcome. It’s well designed and provides plenty of easy to read information for parents, women and men. There’s also information for health care professionals.

There’s an easy to use drinks calculator which allows you to quickly calculate whether your drinking is a problem.  The calculator results also show you how many calories you’re consuming and the number of burgers and teaspoons of sugar this represents.  It also shows what you could buy if you were not spending money on drink. E.g. a high definition TV. They’ve obviously done the research on what motivates people to reduce their drinking

There’s a search feature where you can find treatment services which have been screened by the HSE. (We’re included)

 

Ask About Alcohol videos represent real life

The videos supporting the ads are well designed, to the point and represent real life. I really like the one where the woman reducing her drinking to control her weight, gets  really negative vibes from her friend. We find this is a common reaction from friends. (You can see the video here) Already the video has  70,000 plus views.

The video about the young footballer being hung over on the football pitch and substituted is good too. But it’s only got 7,000 views. Perhaps confirming all the research that women are much more motivated to take action on their health. One of the reasons we decided to develop this website to help women first.

 

The negatives in Ask About Alcohol

There’s a few  misspellings in a couple of places and some graphics have the wrong title. In general they avoid shaming and blaming people for drinking too much. In some places though they refer to the “high functioning alcoholic” or “chronic alcoholic”

ask about alcohol

As regular readers know we hate this term, as most people see this as hitting rock bottom, being homeless and having a lifelong alcohol problem.  There’s so much stigma around it. Stigma that prevents people from seeking help. For a website that’s aims at raising awareness in the 1.34 million people who drink harmfully this may put people off.

 

The medications list misses a few key drugs

Although there’s a link to prescription medications that can cause problems with alcohol, the information provided is not complete. For example, getting drunk is very dangerous when taking warfarin, a common drug used to prevent heart attacks, strokes, and blood clots because it increases the risks of bleeding.  (See here ) The most complete list we’ve found is here, but it’s American so some of the drug descriptions  used are different.

 

The helpline only operates during office hours

The helpline 1800 459 459 only operates during office hours. Worse when we tried to ring it during the weekend we just got

“You are through the HSE helpline, please stay on the line while we try to connect your call”

And then we got promptly cut off both times!

From our experience, peak time for people looking for help is Sunday, so a helpline operating on Sunday would be useful.

 

Overall Conclusion

If  we were really serious about tackling the alcohol abuse problem, Ask About Alcohol would also include

  • An online personalised treatment  service (we have short courses available here )
  • Opt in notifications – such as weekly emails, (you can join our email list here) text prompts and webinars. (Where you can join online chats)
  • A calculator which allows you to track your drinking.  The research shows this really helps people to reduce their drinking. Lack of money means we can’t provide one but you can find a nice free calculator here.

There is a tiny team working on the alcohol issue in both the HSE and the Department of Health. This is despite the fact the alcohol abuse problem consumes over 10% of the health care budget every year.  These range from an increased risk  of breast cancer, chest infections to pancreatis.(You can see a quick video on alcohol harms here.You’ll probably be surprised about how wide ranging these problems are)

1,500 of our 11,000 hospital beds are occupied every single night by people with alcohol related illnesses. Reducing this by 30% would solve the trolley bed problem, so it’s disturbing how little attention the alcohol harm problem receives.

ask about alcohol

 

When you take into account the budgets they have, Ask About Alcohol is a very good step in the right direction. It will be interesting to see how long the radio ads and digital marketing will continue. Hopefully there is a decent budget for these. In Ireland radio is a very good way of reaching people. If the ads reach a large group of people, it might start a much needed discussion about our alcohol problem and start improving  our understanding  of alcohol abuse.

 

The big picture

Despite constant lobbying from the community sector to take more effective action on alcohol abuse, little has changed. Indeed our associate charity Dual Diagnosis Ireland had to lobby hard with other charities to prevent alcohol being taking out of the proposed new strategy on drug harms early last year.  The treatment sector is underfunded and it’s crazy that we’re still wasting time  revisiting key decisions already taken. This reduces the already limited ability of the sector to improve treatments.

Big alcohol has such influence in creating a climate of acceptance of alcohol harm. (see more here) They’ve encouraged watering down of legislation and prevented legislation to reduce alcohol harm being passed (see more here).  At the current rate of progress, it is unlikely we’re going to see much change for a few generations.

If you’d like to support our petition to change this, please click here.

 

 

 

Key questions to ask on alcohol treatments

We’ve had a few people asking us about alcohol treatments so we thought we’d do a post to bring together all the different posts we’ve done on alcohol treatments.

 

All about residential alcohol treatments

Our first post explains all about residential rehabs when you actually live in a treatment centre for a period of time. Depending on the treatment centre this can range from one month to three months. We explain when this may be helpful.The treatments offered by each centre differ so you need to check out what each treatment offers before deciding which treatment centre is right for you.

Click here for more details

 

How can an  alcohol treatment counsellor help you ?

Most people with an alcohol problem,do not need to go into a residential alcohol treatment. Seeing  a counsellor may be helpful. This post explains how counsellors work and the different types of counsellors. We explain what they do, how they work and issues to consider when choosing one

Click here for more details

 

Key questions to ask an alcohol treatment counsellor

So you’ve decided to see a counsellor and have the names of possible counsellors. This post gives useful questions to ask a counsellor to help you make the decision as to which counsellor is right for you.

Click here for more details

 

Remember you are unique and need a treatment that works for you

Unfortunately in alcohol abuse treatments, some services insist on a “sheep dip” approach where everybody goes through the same treatment. Everyone has different reasons for drinking too much so treatment should tackle these reasons rather than assuming every one is the same.

So it is really important to find a treatment approach that is tailored to you personally. Often this may be called “person centered” treatment.  So it’s useful to ask if the service has a “person centered” approach.

We provide a range of free and paid courses so there may be one that suits you. Click here for more details.

 

Ask us a question

If you have questions on alcohol treatments, please do email us and we’ll do our very best to help.

Click here to email us.

Missing out on a simple way to control your drinking?

A great way to control your drinking is to understand your reasons for drinking. Yet, this can be confusing as everybody’s reasons for drinking are different.  Some people drink because they’re depressed, for others drinking makes them depressed.

Some people drink too much  at the end of a long hard day to relax, others drink because drinking gives them energy to get through all they need to do in our modern hectic lives.

 

Drinking has two faces.

So like the Roman God, Janus, drinking has two faces. There’s the upsides or pro’s  where drinking helps you feel better and then there’s the downsides or con’s where drinking is making your life worse.

Marketing and advertising  makes drinking seems so normal and essential to a happy life, we’re often unaware of the downsides or the con’s If everybody around us is drinking, it can’t be that bad can it?

 

What are your pro’s and con’s of drinking?

So there’s lots of pro’s to drinking but also lot’s of con’s. Do you know what your pro’s and con’s of drinking are? Even if you’re not misusing alcohol, understanding the reasons why you drink is really important because then you’re much less likely to develop a drinking problem. Research shows that people who know their pro’s and con’s of drinking are likely to be more successful in keeping their drinking under control.

 

Control your drinking

So we’ve made it easier for you to understand your pros and cons and control your drinking. We’ve put together a short course called Janus,  My drinking pro’s and con’s

It contains

  1. An introduction,

2. An  audio from Valerie  explaining pro’s and cons.

3. A multiple choice quiz with a complete listing of pro’s and con’s  so you just have to tick the ones that apply to you

4. Suggested ways you can use your personal pros and cons to control your drinking.

The course will take no more than an hour to complete. You can start it  straight away, and if you’re under time pressure, save it and finish it another time.  Then you’ll have a great way to control your drinking.

So start right away  by clicking here

As always you remain anonymous.

 

Key questions to ask on alcohol treatment

There are lots of different types of alcohol treatment. I’ve covered rehab and choosing a counsellor previously so this post  covers key questions to ask  when speaking to a counsellor. When you contact a counsellor don’t be afraid to ask plenty of questions. A good counsellor will welcome questions as they will want to make sure their alcohol treatment approach can help you.

 

 Ask about qualifications

In Ireland, there is no law to stop someone calling themselves a counsellor or therapist when they have no training or qualifications. This warning also applies to other treatments such as hypnosis. So do check the websites of the professional counselling associations to make sure your counsellor is qualified to practise. You should also know that some one can be a member of a professional counselling association but may not be accredited to practise as a counsellor. For example, a student member is not fully qualified to practise.  A listing of the main  Irish associations is shown at the end of this post.

 

Psychologists

A counsellor can also be called a psychologist, which is a term about to be protected by law.  You can check psychologist  registration on this website. There are many different types of psychologists. For example, an educational psychologist will probably not be trained in providing alcohol treatment. They focus on how people to learn.

If you decide you need a psychologist,  ideally a counselling psychologist with alcohol abuse training is best.  If you think you have an underlying mental health issue such as ADHD you may find a  clinical psychologist with alcohol abuse training helpful.

 

Different approaches in different countries

In England there are  voluntary registers for counsellors which can be found here.  The American situation is different again. A useful guide for finding alcohol treatment can be found in this book “inside rehab” by Anne M. Fletcher which can be found here.

 

 Cost

Find out cost from the very start. Cost can vary considerably, from free services to up to €150 per hour. Psychologists tend to be at the higher end of the range. The fee is usually per session and some counsellors offer a sliding scale according to your ability to pay.

To help you work out the cost, ask the counsellor if they can give you an estimate of how many sessions might be involved. Counselling is provided free within some public health services and most third level institutions offer student counselling services free of charge. A number of voluntary agencies also provide free counselling.

Some health insurance packages cover the cost of a limited number of counselling sessions. Ask your insurer to clarify the terms and conditions of cover.

If cost is a problem, this should be mentioned when making enquiries as some organisations may have sliding scales, low cost options or payment on the basis of a donation.

 

You might find these questions about approach useful:

  1. Have you worked with people who misuse alcohol before?
  2. What is your approach? e.g 12 step, harm reduction, person centered etc. (We’ll  have  another post on this)
  3. What do you think is the goal of the therapy?
  4. What methods do you employ?
  5. What’s the number of sessions you think we’ll need?
  6. Is the timing of these sessions flexible or do they have to happen at a regular scheduled time ?
  7. What’s expected from me? (For instance, are there homework assignments ?)

 

You might find the questions below useful after the first session;

  1. Did you feel the counsellor listened and understood your concerns?
  2. Did you feel like the counsellor respected you?
  3. Did you feel the counsellor saw you as an equal and did not patronise you?
  4. Did the Counsellor seem like a real person or were they playing a role?
  5. Was the counsellor passive (simply listening) or active (asking questions) in the session? What do you like better?
  6. Does it seem like the counsellor will be open to hearing about all your feelings, including being frustrated or angry with the counsellor?
  7. Do you feel the counsellor will not judge you if you have a relapse or continue to drink?
  8. Did the counsellor have a positive outlook on life?
  9. Did you feel safe expressing your thoughts, concerns and feelings?

 

If you are not answering yes to most of these questions, then this counsellor may not be right for you and you should consider trying another counsellor.

All the research shows the relationship between the client and counsellor is the key to success. Do make sure you feel comfortable with your counsellor. If you do not feel comfortable with your counsellor it might be time to try another counsellor.

 

Alcohol treatment

As you can see there are a wide range of issues to consider when deciding on alcohol treatments. Sometimes it can take a few attempts to find  an approach  that suits you.  So don’t give up if you don’t succeed the first time. It could be this was not the right treatment for you.

Finally we have a number of online courses both free and paid you might find useful that you can find here.

 

If you found this post helpful, you might find these posts useful

Can an alcohol counsellor help you?

Rehab when is it needed?

 

Irish Associations for Counselling and Psychotherapy

Irish Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy

Irish Association of Humanistic and Integrative Psychotherapy

The Psychological Society of Ireland

Irish Council for Addiction Counsellors

 

 

 

Lifewise helping to solve the alcohol abuse problem

It’s early days yet to know whether  Lifewise is helping to solve the alcohol abuse problem.  We’ve only  just built the website.

You won’t see many comments on the blog because alcohol abuse has such  stigma.  However  we are getting very nice emails from people complimenting us on the website and saying Lifewise is helping to solve the alcohol abuse problem. So we thought we’d publish a few quotes where we have permission.

 

Some quotes from Health Care Professionals

“You’re onto a winner with this website”

“I really liked the website the lady, Valerie, was fab!  Truly, I watched some of the videos and you really get a sense that she’s walked the road herself and knows how recovery should work.   I thought it was bright, easy to navigate and very very useful”

“I’m really impressed, it looks amazing. The layout is great and really easy to navigate. The Alcohol Support Services and Blog pages are excellent, loads of useful information”

 

Some quotes from people with alcohol misuse problems

 “I really like Lifewise, It’s open and honest and has me thinking”

The emails are really useful for making me think. I share them with some friends”

“I wish I’d learned these tips earlier, would have saved me a lot of trouble”

 

is Lifewise  helping people with alcohol misuse problems?

Well the feedback so far is very good. Only when we have larger numbers of people using the website   and complete a formal  evaluation can we say  for certain 100% yes.  Lifewise is helping. But already   we’re creating awareness and that is the start of solving any problem.

What we do know is on average people who are misusing alcohol do so for about ten years before seeking help. If they seek help at all.

Most people misusing alcohol are not alcoholics

Most alcohol services are aimed at people with severe alcohol abuse problems.  Yet, 90% of people with an alcohol abuse problem are not addicted to alcohol.  There are 1.5 million people  in Ireland alone abusing alcohol, yet officially just 8,000 people are recorded as receiving help.

Over 1,500 of our hospital beds are occupied every single night by people with alcohol related problems. If we even reduced this by 30%, nobody would have to wait on a trolley bed in hospital emergency departments.

So more services like Lifewise are badly needed. The research shows people use these services to help them reduce their level of drinking and if they have a severe alcohol misuse problem, they go to their doctor more quickly.

 

What do you think?

We’d love to hear your views?

Is Lifewise helping you?

Is there anything you don’t like?

What would you like more of?

 

You can email us here info@alifewise.ie and we promise to reply confidentially to all emails.

Don’t forget if you’d like to stay up to date you can sign up for our ezines here.

Can an alcohol counsellor help you?

 I talked in this post about  rehabs and promised to come back to how an alcohol counsellor may help. So first to explain some terms.

 

What is counselling & psychotherapy?

Counselling & Psychotherapy are words used to  describe  a range of talking therapies which is when you meet with a health care professional  (often known as therapist) who is specially trained to  help. Counselling usually involves committing to a series of regular sessions of about an hour in length over a period of time.

 

Is it easier to talk to a stranger?

Sometimes it is easier to talk to a stranger than to relatives or friends.  During counselling the therapist listens to you and helps you find your own answers to problems without judging you. The counsellor will give you time to talk, cry or just think without judging you.

 

You do not need to be in a crisis

You do not need to be in crisis to go to counselling, in the same way you might do a course to get a promotion or better job, counselling can be a form of self-development in order to lead a happier more productive life.  It can also help to maintain a sense of well-being whilst facing challenges in your life.  For example, caring for an elderly parent with Alzheimer’s can be very stressful. I’m in this situation and even though I have very supportive friends I find it really helpful to talk to a counsellor on a regular basis.

 

There are many different types of counsellors

There are many different types of counsellors/therapists with psychological training from clinical psychologists, occupational psychologists, to counselling psychologists, psychothera­pists to CBT counsellors and creative art therapists. Each of these is trained to treat your mental health problems in a different way and there is much discussion about which way is best. Some of these professionals will have gone through their own personal psychological therapy as part of their training, but others do not.

 

Do all counsellors treat alcohol misuse?

Because of the different types of training they receive alcohol and mental health issues are seen as two different problems. So many counsellors treat mental health issues only and not alcohol abuse issues. This does seem a little crazy as the research shows many people misusing alcohol have an underlying health problem such as anxiety or depression. You can find out more about this issue on this website here. (Note: Angela and I helped to co-found this website)

 

Do all alcohol counsellors help with mental health problems?

It depends on when and where they trained. Some alcohol counsellor training  courses follow the Alcohol Anonymous 12 step model and the alcohol counsellors are not trained to deal with other  mental health issues. Ideally it is best to choose a counsellor who is trained to treat both alcohol misuse and mental health issues.

 

Which alcohol counsellor is best for me?

Research shows  a good relationship with your psychologist or counsellor is the most important part of solving your problem.

You should make sure you feel comfortable and safe with your counsellor and you choose a therapist that supports you in setting your own treatment goals and uses a therapy that suits you.

 

Try to understand what you need

For example, you may have experienced bullying in school but never abused alcohol until you started experiencing anxiety as a result of a stressful work situation. So you may decide you wish to learn to manage your anxiety better, but do not wish to re-open the issue of your childhood bullying. A professional and ethical therapist will accept your decision and work with you on your anxiety only without passing judgement or attempting to re -open the childhood bullying issue as they will know this could be very damaging to you.

 

CBT therapy

CBT therapy can be very effective for anxiety and alcohol misuse and does not generally have to look at childhood issues. A therapist who uses only psychoanalytic therapies may tend to help by examining childhood issues. They may tend to focus on your childhood. So it is useful to know what type of approach the counsellor will use. A highly trained alcohol counsellor will use a mix of  therapy approaches as that way they are more likely to find an approach that suits you.

We’ll have a course on CBT soon, so if you’d like to know when it becomes available please click here.

In a future post, I’ll deal with selecting the right counsellor for you.

 

 

 

 

 

Rehab, when is it needed?

Rehab means different things to  people. When my youngest daughter’s friends‘ parents started giving me funny looks. I realised, my daughter had said I was in rehab.  So the parents  thought my rehab was about alcohol.  It was actually rehab to help me walk again. Although I had not wanted to stay overnight it proved to be a good option because I was just so exhausted after  each day’s programmes. It also meant  nice  meals were served up to me . I slept well as I had a private room. All important issues if you’re considering a residential rehab.

The Parent’s reactions though really brought home to me the stigma  about  saying you  need help for alcohol misuse. That’s why our online courses are run on  first name or user name only.

 

Rehab is different depending on where you go.

In alcohol treatments rehab often  means staying in a residential treatment centre.   Different centres have different entry criteria and you stay there for different lengths of time.

For example, some centres insist you do not take medications such as anti-anxiety drugs.

Centres offer different treatments and have different approaches. Many centres operate a strict Alcoholics Anonymous 12 step approach based on not drinking at all.  These centres do not offer harm reduction approaches which help people to reduce their drinking to low risk limits.

Many centres do not deal with mental health issues such as depression. Now if alcohol is causing your depression that may not be a problem. But if you’re misusing alcohol because you are depressed then that service may not be helpful for you. A service which provides counselling to help you deal with your depression will be more useful.

In Ireland, there is no statutory regulation or monitoring of treatment centre  outcomes, so you will need to ask questions to make sure the treatment centre is right for you.

 

All people with an alcohol misuse problem need a residential rehab.

The notion that all people with an alcohol problem need a residential rehab is a myth. Research shows the majority of people abusing alcohol do not need a residential  treatment. Situations where a residential stay  may be useful include

  • Your life is totally chaotic and out of control
  • You need “protected”  time  from your usual responsibilities to focus  solely on your recovery
  • You’re a danger to yourself e.g.  actively suicidal, or consistent  drink driving
  • You’re unable to reduce your  problem drinking to low risk limits  despite  help from expert programmes
  • You have a significant mental illnesses which is not well controlled.  Confusingly in Ireland though, the majority of residential  centres do not accept people with mental illnesses.

A key thing to look for is support for when you leave the centre. Some centres offer this support which is often called “after care”. You may have to pay extra for this aftercare.

 

Do I need a residential rehab?

Whether you need a residential stay or not is really an individual decision, based on your needs and the services available in your area. Assuming the factors above do not apply to you, the following supports may be helpful

Educating yourself about alcohol misuse and how to reduce alcohol misuse. You can use the courses on this website or find a suitable community based programme on www.drugs.ie

Joining a peer support group which can be online or face to face meetings. For example our partner Soberistas  is an online group. Groups  such as  AA,   or  Life ring hold meetings in physical locations. Peer support groups do differ in how they operate. So find one that matches  your needs. It should support  both  your drinking goals and your  personality.

Coaching or counselling from an experienced or qualified counsellor can be helpful.  We’ll expand on this in a future post.

What do you think ? We’d love to hear your views in the comments below.